The constellation work that I did with Lisa had immediate and profound effects. She constellated my wife and I. We needed to sort through 30 years of stuff after our house sold after a difficult divorce. Historically, cleaning the house and garage together was difficult and stressful for both of us. On top of that, she had been so angry for the previous 3 months, that we only spoke briefly and that was very tense. After the constellation, we sorted through our stuff in about 3 hours very pleasantly. There were only 2 times of about 1 minute each where there was tension related to the divorce settlement. I was extremely pleased with the work that Lisa did with me.
— Bond Astera Dynamic Constellation will aid you in a holistic and dynamic way from
problem resolution to creative project development and completion.
What Is A Constellation?
Constellation is used to describe both a method and a configuration. Using a constellation method, persons or objects are used to represent actual people, qualities or things primarily for the purpose of gaining an understanding of a vexing situation. Typically the representatives are placed in relation to each other by a Constellation Facilitator to both visually and otherwise demonstrate actual connections and potential for interaction then to resolve revealed points of contention. Once these conflicts have been resolved, more positive, beneficial connections can be developed and entire situations can be transformed as a result. The arrangement itself is also referred to as a constellation.
So constellating is about building a working, demonstrative model of what is going on in a relationship — like a schematic inclusive of dynamic factors — to enable consideration of the whole, then within that significant context focus on specifics that are relevant without being distracted by what is irrelevant.
Resolutions commence by first allowing an open focus — then holding that focus — for each point of contention — whether eminent or previously hidden. Without distraction, allowing awareness of the specific details provides a more factual understanding than the condensed 'story' version. Working each detail until conflict and tension is eliminated or reduced always gives way to the arise of alternative solutions. These alternatives can be reviewed and assessed until the best fit is discovered and the new situation feels right to the client. Even the most complex situation can be altered by fully constellating it and while complex in detail, the process is perceived to be almost effortless to the client.
Although the constellation session generally comes to a close when new results prevail, clients not only claim immediate results while in constellation but report that improvements and noteworthy benefits continue to arise for days, weeks and even months after a Dynamic Constellation.
You don't have to suffer or struggle with problems.When Can A Constellation Help You?
No matter how hopeless your situation appears or how traumatic your personal history has been, there is always a solution within the larger context. You don't have to continue to struggle but you do have to start looking from a fresh point of view. Even the most serious problems have a solution. And you can find that solution once you step out of being entrenched in the problem regardless if the issue is about illness, depression, financial or relationship issues, or any lifelong negative pattern.
The experience provides life–changing insight into the hidden roots of many common problems. Constellations are especially effective when the circumstances of your problems change, but the fundamental pattern remains the same. When analyzing things ad nauseam has left you feeling defeated and hopeless, a constellation can free you from dead end, linear cause and effect analysis.
Is there a gap between what you can see yourself accomplishing and what your life actually looks like, right now? Have you been consumed by something? Questions you don't know how to answer? Is there something you'd like to understand better or change? Reveal to yourself through a constellation what you need to know to harness your own hidden personal strengths and find alternative solutions that work specifically for you in your unique circumstance.
All human beings have the capacity to understand and respond effectively to their own problems, and when that doesn't happen, we consistently find the forces of others influences are likely to be overwhelming the individual. Are you inundated by the issues of those close to you? Are you spending more time coming up with the solution to everyone else's problems while you leave yours unattended and unresolved?
Get Clear and Move Forward
Lisa's Dynamic Constellation work has changed my life and opened new areas for me to explore. I am starting a new business venture and did not know how to proceed. Lisa helped me see where I am now and brought forth new perspectives and options to consider and pursue. I was able to focus on key aspects to invest my time and energy for highest leverage. I do not know whether it was myself that was changed by Lisa's work or the world as new opportunities opened up and new people came into my life to propel me forward. Ongoing work with Lisa has enabled me to relax with less anxiety about the future while carrying less baggage from the past. I experienced more creative power as old wounds and relationships were resolved and healed through Lisa's efforts. The possibilities are endless with no issue too small or too large. I thank Lisa for her dedication and skill in bringing me the change I needed. I will continue to work with her to enable the brightest potential future for myself and everyone that I interact with. I would recommend Dynamic Constellation sessions for anyone who is alive and wants more from this experience.
— Lance YoungIt can be difficult to fully perceive and acknowledge all of the complex interrelations of a set of relationships. And as a whole, these touch points can have an entirely different effect on you than each point individually. A constellation facilitator can assist you with making these complexities manageable by a schematic–like layout so that each element is reviewed in its own right but also as a part of a whole.
Plus, in a Dynamic Constellation, elements that only appear during interactions are also considered, bringing to light another dimension that may be holding previously hidden contributions to your already complex problem … and the potential for permanent resolution.
Reasons For Getting A Constellation
Below is a partial list of what people have already requested a Dynamic Constellation to resolve. As people continue to explore the benefits of constellation work, they have been able to delve deeper to get more out of their lives and new issues continue to emerge. What ordinarily may have been an additional complication, becomes manageable complexity that actually enriches their lives and those they share life with.
| job, career | finances | family, in–laws | intimate relationships | self-sabotage |
| boss, co–workers | work environment | divorce | overwhelm, stress, PTSD | mental rumination |
| health issues | lost or missing | gender | large projects | community issues |
| creativity blocks | organizational issues | adoption | relocation | procrastination |
| neighbors | grief, fear | writers block | new skill adaptation | activism |
| retirement years | confusion | self-exploration | the unknown | metaphysical |
Lisa's work is amazing. What she tapped into & facilitated movement on made a big difference in my interactions with my roommate and other men in my life. I understood another aspect of human dynamics on a whole new level. Thank you, Lisa.
— Brooklin KayceHow It Works
Describe the issue you want constellated as clearly and simply as possible — providing just a few main factual details just as you are aware of them. I will layout these elements as you describe them and then I will begin to focus on revealing a broader view of the entire issue.
I'll focus on each element ~ one at a time, then each elements details. I may ask a few additional questions to get your impression of more specific details of any particular element. As points of contention are revealed, alternative options are explored. As alternative options that are not in conflict are chosen, the entire issue begins to change. Most people feel these shifts immediately during the constellation.
Shifts of improvement can continue to occur days, weeks and even months after the initial constellation. Most are so gentle that many people are unable to connect the constellation moves to the results ~ changes in themselves, their relationships and their lifestyle.
The dynamic constellation work of Lisa DeMars is amazing. I have experienced several constellations and witnessed many others. Every time, something remarkable happens. The process of forming the constellation with Lisa is helpful in and of itself: she skillfully draws forth information about "what is" that shifts my understanding of a problem immediately. She often has insights about aspects of a situation that are uncannily accurate and can't be explained by the "facts" I've given her — she just seems to know somehow. Her explanations about what is going on during a constellation are captivating and the resolutions lead to "Aha" moments of clarity and delight. One of her constellation sessions had a profound effect on me that became more intense over time, giving my meditation practice a transformative boost. In another case, Lisa helped me move my stalled business forward with a dramatic resolution that led to a change in orientation, which provided radical and rapid benefits. I highly recommend Lisa and her dynamic constellation work to anyone experiencing a problematic situation or needing creative insight to further their goals.
Sincerely,Paul Dupuy, Jr.
CEO, Anahata Software
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